Why choose a couples specialist over an individual therapist?

A therapist who specializes in couples has focused training on how couples connect, communicate, and clash. Unlike a general therapist who sometimes works with couples, a specialist is better equipped to spot hidden relationship patterns, use proven techniques to improve your bond, and help you understand how your past experiences affect your relationship today.

What percentage of couples stay together after couples therapy?

The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists states 90% of couples who complete therapy with a highly trained couples therapist report an increase in their emotional well-being. Approximately two-thirds of participants also report improvements in their general physical well-being. Couples therapy has also shown to be as effective as individual therapy in addressing symptoms of depression in some cases.

How long will we have to attend couples therapy sessions?

At Kodo, couples work in four-month cycles. This structure provides enough time to build momentum, practice new tools, and see measurable change in your relationship. Most couples begin to notice meaningful shifts within the first few sessions, but lasting transformation typically unfolds over the course of a full cycle. At the end of each four-month period, we review your progress together and decide whether to transition out of therapy, extend for another cycle, or shift focus based on your evolving goals.

What if my partner doesn't want to come to couples therapy?

One partner being hesitant is common. Kodo offers Couples Therapy for One for individuals who want to work on their relationship even when their partner is not ready. Discernment Counseling is also available for couples where one partner is unsure about staying.

Do you offer therapy for non-traditional relationships?

Yes. Kodo welcomes couples of all backgrounds, identities, and relationship structures. Who you love is never a question; how you love is what we focus on together.

Do you take insurance for couples therapy?

Kodo does not currently accept insurance due to the limitations it places on the therapy process. Insurance companies often impose restrictions on the types of treatment and the number of sessions covered, which can limit the flexibility needed for effective therapy. Detailed superbills are provided that you can submit to your insurance company for out-of-network reimbursement.

Do you offer remote couples therapy sessions?

Yes. Kodo offers secure and confidential remote therapy sessions for couples and individuals throughout California.

What is the cost of couples counseling in Marin County?

Sessions at Kodo are $225 to $250 for 50 minutes or $330 for 80 minutes depending on clinician. Monthly superbills are available for Marin County clients who wish to use PPO out-of-network benefits.

Do you offer in-person couples intensives in Marin County?

Yes. We offer in-person couples intensives for partners in Mill Valley, San Rafael, and throughout Marin County who want to work more deeply and efficiently than traditional weekly therapy allows.

What is the difference between marriage counseling and Relational Life Therapy (RLT)?

Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a therapeutic approach that focuses on identifying and changing relational patterns such as power struggles, emotional withdrawal, and reactivity in order to improve connection and accountability.

How long does couples therapy take?

At Kodo, couples work in four-month cycles. Most couples notice meaningful shifts within the first few sessions. At the end of each cycle we review progress together and decide whether to continue, shift focus, or transition out.

What makes Kodo different from other couples therapists in Marin?

Kodo is a couples-only practice. Every clinician specializes exclusively in relationship work, using Relational Life Therapy, EMDR, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. We do not do general therapy with occasional couples sessions — relationships are all we do.

Fees & Policies

Individual Session Fees

50 minutes $250

80 minutes $375

Founder & Clinical Director

Sheena Simpson

LMFT #16841

50 minutes $225

80 minutes $330

Clinician

Allison

LMFT

50 minutes $225

80 minutes $330

Relationship Coach

Joanna

30+ years of experience

Premarital therapy $1950

A structured 6-session program completed over 6-10 weeks. Complete scope, clear endpoint, everything included.

6 sessions · full program

Couples Intensive $3980

A concentrated 2-day intensive for couples who need to move quickly or have complex repair work. Includes follow-up sessions and personalized roadmap.

2-day intensive · full program

We don't take insurance.
This allows for deeper, more effective work.

Kodo is a private pay practice and we don't bill insurance. This allows us to work without restrictions on time, pace, or depth , which matters when you're trying to shift patterns that haven't changed for years.

Many clients use out-of-network benefits to receive partial reimbursement. We can provide a superbill upon request.

Using out-of-network benefits

Many PPO plans reimburse a portion of therapy. Call the number on your card and ask:

→Do I have out-of-network mental health benefits?

→What is my deductible?

→What percentage is reimbursed after the deductible?

We provide a superbill you can submit directly to your insurer for reimbursement.

Session Fees, Insurance, and Support Options

Every session at Kodo is designed to create lasting impact. We offer 50-minute appointments for individuals and couples, with extended sessions available upon request.
Our approach blends deep relational work with actionable strategies. Between sessions, you’ll have access to optional support through our secure client portal: personalized resources, communication tools, and reflection prompts to keep the momentum going.
Kodo Couples Therapy is a private-pay practice. While we do not bill insurance directly, we can provide a superbill for you to submit to your insurance company for possible out-of-network reimbursement.
Many PPO plans offer partial reimbursement for therapy services. We encourage you to check with your provider using these questions:
- Do I have out-of-network mental health benefits?
- Is couples therapy covered under my plan?
- What percentage is reimbursed per session?
We believe therapy should be accessible, and we’re committed to making healing work available to more people.
A limited number of sliding scale spots are available through Open Path Collective, a nonprofit network dedicated to affordable care.
Don’t hesitate to reach out. We’ll do our best to support you in finding a path forward.

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Fees & Policies

Individual Session Fees

50 minutes $250

80 minutes $375

50 minutes $225

80 minutes $330

50 minutes $225

80 minutes $330

Premarital therapy $1950

Couples Intensive $3980

We don't take insurance.This allows for deeper, more effective work.

Using out-of-network benefits

Session Fees, Insurance, and Support Options

What’s Included in a Session

Insurance & Out-of-Network Benefits

Accessibility

Ready to get started?

We don't take insurance.
This allows for deeper, more effective work.