Betrayal can feel like a blow to the very foundation of your relationship. Whether it’s infidelity, a broken promise, or a hidden secret, the road back to trust often feels daunting. But with a clear, step-by-step Relational Life Therapy (RLT) approach based on acknowledgment, transparency, repair actions, and reconnection rituals, Marin County couples can heal and grow stronger than ever.

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1. Acknowledgment: Naming the Wound

The first critical step in rebuilding trust is honest acknowledgment of the hurt. Avoid minimizing or intellectualizing the betrayal, and instead create a safe space for both partners to express raw feelings.

• Exercise: Schedule a 10-minute “Truth Moment” each week. One partner speaks uninterrupted about how the betrayal impacted them, using “I” statements (“I felt abandoned when…”). The other listens and reflects back without defense.

When people think about ADHD, they often picture a distracted child in a classroom. But what many do not realize is how ADHD continues to affect adults, especially within intimate relationships. The impact is not always loud or obvious. More often, it plays out in quiet, persistent patterns that wear both partners down over time.

ADHD is not a character flaw. It is a brain based condition that affects attention, impulse control, emotional regulation, and follow through. In relationships, these symptoms do not happen in isolation. They show up in dishes left in the sink, forgotten agreements, missed appointments, and partners feeling dismissed, overwhelmed, or emotionally invisible. We can support couples struggling with ADHD at Kodo Couples Therapy in Marin.

Even in scenic Marin County, relationships can feel strained by disconnection and recurring conflict. This post explores how marriage counseling helps couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and turn emotional distance into deeper connection.