Rebuild Trust with Couples Counseling in Marin County

Kodo Couples Therapy in Novato

Step into Your Next Chapter

Are you struggling to communicate? You and your partner often feel unheard or misunderstood.

Is broken trust holding you back? You want to heal old wounds and rebuild true intimacy.

If you are struggling with your relationship, you have come to the right place.

We help couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and deepen emotional intimacy through evidence-based approaches like the Relational Life Therapy (RLT), the Gottman Method, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). As EMDR-certified therapists, we also support individuals in processing past traumas that impact their relationships. Our goal is to provide practical tools and compassionate guidance to help couples create healthier, more fulfilling connections. If you’re caught in the same argument on repeat or feel more like roommates than partners, this post can help you understand why and what to do next.

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Marriage Counseling

A strong marriage starts with a solid foundation. Premarital counseling helps couples navigate important conversations about communication, conflict, intimacy, and shared values before saying "I do." Together, we’ll strengthen your connection, address potential challenges, and equip you with tools to build a lasting partnership.

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Our 2–3-day couples intensive is perfect for busy partners (equivalent to 3–4 months of weekly therapy). Through tailored RLT exercises, somatic attunement, and EMDR, you’ll break stuck patterns, rebuild trust, and gain concrete communication tools plus a personalized roadmap for lasting change.

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Unresolved trauma can shape the way we connect, communicate, and respond in relationships. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) helps process past wounds so they no longer drive present conflicts. It is a powerful way to break free from old patterns and build more security & connection.

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Deciding whether to commit or walk away can feel overwhelming. Whether you're questioning a new relationship, struggling in a long-term partnership, or facing a breakup, therapy provides a space to gain clarity, process emotions, and make empowered, intentional choices for your future.

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Using research-based marriage counseling, we help partners reconnect, communicate effectively, and navigate challenges with deeper understanding. Whether you're feeling stuck, distant, or in conflict, we are here to provide support and guidance to restore trust and intimacy.

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You don’t have to wait for your partner to start changing your relationship. Couples therapy for one offers a powerful space to explore your relationship dynamics, gain clarity, and create meaningful change on your own

The Meaning of Kodo

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Kodo 鼓動, which translates to "heartbeat" in Japanese, encapsulates the essential pulse of life and connection. It also serves as the fundamental source of all rhythm and is reminiscent of a mother's pulse felt from the womb. In a spiritual sense, it reflects the heart's harmonious functioning, capturing our inner state and emotions.

We uphold this principle at Kodo Couples & Marriage Counseling by helping couples rediscover their emotional pulse. Our culturally sensitive approach ensures that we respect and understand each client's unique background, making your relationship stronger.

Starting your journey toward a stronger, more connected relationship is a brave decision, and we are here to support you every step of the way. Schedule your free consultation today.

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Kodo is LGBTQIA+ affirming.